what? nothing...

microsignals... reading between the lines, double meanings... the ability to read into things that never were there. is this what is destroying relationships as we knew them? is this to blame for so many fall outs, or for people being stereotyped as "selfish" and said to be "so full of themselves."

what? ...nothing.
everyone reads something, or hears something and then repeats it to themselves or re-reads it again and again looking for hidden meanings, and everytime they replay it, finding something knew it could mean or some tiny message that could possibly be hidden in one sentence of it and twisting it into some massive thing.

what? ...nothing

why is it that no one believes we mean what we say? everyone has to search until they find a meaning that satisfies them. in speech they will identify the tone, minute tones, micro expressions, amounts of swallowing, and double meanings to the sentence. a simple, "sorry can't make it i'm working" can twist into basically almost anything if the listener has the imagination.

what? ...nothing

so if i said something something simple, half my friends would hear something different, some offencive, some thinking oo new goss, some... who knows, anything... i bet... if anyone reads this blog, they'll read into it randomly. they'll say "oh it's obvious here she's taking a stab at someone." or "she's been reading into things wrong, possibly relationship wise and has now been hurt bad." when in reality, i just simply had a realisation and a need to tell about it. it's simply obviously entirely meaning nothing.